Being Vunerable

When I entered the workforce in 1980 women were expected to act like men. They even dressed like men with expensive suits from Jos. A Bank.  We even wore a tie just like men.  This was so confusing for women like me who were raised by stay at home mothers.  Unlike my male counterparts I had no role model for how to survive in this strange world of work. I felt very unsure of myself and eventually left the cut throat public accounting world to work in a place that felt more comfortable. All throughout my career I was afraid that people would find me out.  I didn't know enough, I wasn't working hard enough, I wasn't worth what I was paid.  I could not ask questions for fear someone would be on to me.  I finally realized that it is o.k. to be vulnerable.  It makes you a better employee and a more likable person. I am no longer afraid to admit I don't know something or I am nervous about something.  I hope I can set an example for other women.  We can be ourselves and don't have to be like men if that is not our nature.